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Mars. Venus, Descendant, Lilith, Eros, etc. are all considered significant planets/asteroids for understanding the sexuality of an individual through astrology.

Mars and Venus

The positions of Mars and Venus are long considered to be the two most tell-tale signs of a person's approach to sex and love, respectively.

http://www.sexualastrology.com/marsaquariusvenusaquarius.html

Mars in Aquarius - Venus in Aquarius "With Mars in Aquarius you have unusual ideas and attitudes when it comes to sex and your energy will be rather eccentric as you pursue your desires. In fact, what turns you on is likely to confuse the average person. For you, anything worth pursuing must contain a mental connection first. If you don't feel mental arousal, it's impossible to have physical stimulation. The problem is, what turns you on with Mars in Aquarius could be different every day. Phone or cyber sex is particularly appealing to you as are all forms of nontraditional and experimental sexcapades. In general, Mars in Aquarius has the most progressive energy to direct itself where other people would never consider going.

If Venus is in the sign Aquarius, your love needs revolve around experimentation and thinking outside the box when it comes to sex and romance. Venus in Aquarius will attract others through a progressive, open and radical mind that isn't going to obey traditional rules of love. This is the "rebel" in love. You value friendship and a strong mental connection in romance and may appear less comfortable than other signs when it comes to expressing heavy emotion. Venus in Aquarius must have independence and freedom in love so a traditional relationship usually won't work for this sign. If a lover values you for your eccentricity and unpredictability then you may have found true love."

http://www.sexualastrology.com/marsleovenusleo.html

Mars in Leo - Venus in Leo

(EC) "With Mars in Leo you have a deep desire to be as flamboyant in your expression of love and desire as possible. No other sign can compete with your romantic energy since Leo rules love, sex and romance! Mars in Leo does tend toward the assertive pursuit of its own creative self expression and you have a strong desire for being recognized and respected in all you do. You act with nobility and pride in all aspects of life but this is especially apparent in your sexual pursuits. Mars in Leo wants to be a lover who is remembered for being warm hearted and capable of keeping the fun in love for a long time to come. And as long as you get the attention you need, you'll do just that!

If the planet Venus is in the sign Leo in your horoscope then love is a grand, romantic adventure! In fact, you're an incurable romantic and with Venus in Leo you're likely to be in love with love. You need loads of attention and open displays of affection and anyone lucky enough to romance you will be doused with warm, generous gifts. Venus in Leo expects to be treated like royalty in love and sex, but you also know how to treat your romantic partner like the King or Queen of your castle in return. Venus in Leo has a tender ego and strong pride in love so you do need loads of validation and attention but you're free with compliments and have such a strong need to experience true love that once you find it, your loyalty knows no bounds."

Eros and Descendant

The position of asteroid Eros is strongly associated with our erotic nature, while our descendant tells us the types of people we are most attracted to, for balancing our lives in all the houses this tends to be the sign opposite our ascendant (our descendant).

http://www.sexualastrology.com/eros-in-pisces-aquarius-7th-house-descendant.html

Eros in Pisces - Descendant in Aquarius

"If Eros is in the sign Pisces then you'll experience love and erotic pleasure when you're deeply connected to a lover on a soul level. More than any other placement perhaps, Eros in Pisces is looking for the ultimate soul mate ideal - the one love who will complete you. It's possible that you'll find this, however at the same time you are open to more disappointments and delusions in love since you want so much to believe in the best about the one you're in a relationship with. Eros in Pisces can feel the emotions of other in a magnified way and this will enhance your compassion for your lover. It will also help you to psychically tune into what your partner craves in sexual and love relationship. At its best, Eros in Pisces is malleable to deliver and surrender to a lover with unconditional devotion.

If Aquarius is the sign on the cusp of your 7th house then you'll be attracted to unconventional - even eccentric types who demand freedom and will give you plenty in return. You might not be in touch with the part of yourself who yearns to break out of the box and so you'll be magnetically drawn to a love that is unique. If Aquarius is in your 7th house you might also attract a committed sexual relationship that is more experimental and this will not only delight you but it'll fulfill many of your ego needs in love and sex. With Aquarius in the 7th house you'll be attracted to a partner who is visionary and intellectual and might even display genius potential in one or more areas. The quality of your relationship might not be traditional if Aquarius is in the 7th house, however you'll be capable of extraordinary loyalty to the one who has captured your heart."

http://www.sexualastrology.com/eros-in-virgo-aquarius-7th-house-descendant.html

Eros in Virgo - Descendant in Aquarius

(EC from Tr)

"If Eros is in the sign Virgo then you'll experience love, sex and attraction with great discernment…even worry. You might be more paranoid about your sexual prowess than other signs however remember that you are an earth sign, which gives you an extraordinary lusty appetite and a natural ability to offer sensual pleasure to any lover. Eros in Virgo loves in a methodical way and this is your approach to sex as well. Taking care of the details in love and sex will be the doorway to erotic ecstasy in your world. With Eros in Virgo you have a natural ability to purify yourself through love and sex and you also strive to make your lover a better person. Be careful however, of your tendency to nit-pick and find faults in a lover that aren't really there. If this happens, it might be a reflection of your own feelings of inadequacy creeping in. At its best however, Eros in Virgo can be the perfect blend of intellectual and physical eroticism.

If Aquarius is the sign on the cusp of your 7th house then you'll be attracted to unconventional - even eccentric types who demand freedom and will give you plenty in return. You might not be in touch with the part of yourself who yearns to break out of the box and so you'll be magnetically drawn to a love that is unique. If Aquarius is in your 7th house you might also attract a committed sexual relationship that is more experimental and this will not only delight you but it'll fulfill many of your ego needs in love and sex. With Aquarius in the 7th house you'll be attracted to a partner who is visionary and intellectual and might even display genius potential in one or more areas. The quality of your relationship might not be traditional if Aquarius is in the 7th house, however you'll be capable of extraordinary loyalty to the one who has captured your heart."

5th and 8th Houses

The 5th house is associated with love, sex and dating while the 8th house is strongly associated with sex and intimate love.

http://www.sexualastrology.com/sagittarius-5th-house-pisces-8th-house.html

Sagittarius In The 5th House - Pisces In The 8th House

"If Sagittarius is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then love, sex and dating will be a fiery adventure! If there was ever a sign willing to take a chance on love it’s you - Sagittarius in the 5th house will bring extraordinary faith and optimism when it comes to giving love and sex. You expect to win in love and usually, you do! A sexual relationship might have a sporty feel with Sagittarius in your 5th house. You can expect plenty of romping and playful fighting in the bedroom since you love to be physically active with your lover in a variety of ways. You also enjoy plenty of freedom in love so you’ll need a lover who can respect your space. With Sagittarius in your 5th house you’ll enjoy dating people from all walks of life, often attracting lovers who have a background very different from your own. This adds depth and quality to your sexual and romantic escapades.

If Pisces is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to intimate love and sexual encounters might be almost ethereal at times. You might feel as if you always need to make sacrifices for your lover and will attempt to heal the pain and suffering of your lover through your sexual relationship. If Pisces is in your 8th house you’ll be extremely sentimental when it comes to sex and your intimate life could have an element of fantasy to it that has the potential to be quite pleasurable if enacted in reality. The problem with Pisces in the 8th house however is that there might be times when the fantasy is better than the reality and you may prefer to keep a sexual fantasy private rather than strive to realize it. If Pisces is in your 8th house you’ll enjoy sexual experiences that include a telepathic connection between you and your lover."

http://www.sexualastrology.com/sagittarius-5th-house-aries-8th-house.html

Sagittarius In The 5th House - Aries In The 8th House

(EC)

"If Sagittarius is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then love, sex and dating will be a fiery adventure! If there was ever a sign willing to take a chance on love it’s you - Sagittarius in the 5th house will bring extraordinary faith and optimism when it comes to giving love and sex. You expect to win in love and usually, you do! A sexual relationship might have a sporty feel with Sagittarius in your 5th house. You can expect plenty of romping and playful fighting in the bedroom since you love to be physically active with your lover in a variety of ways. You also enjoy plenty of freedom in love so you’ll need a lover who can respect your space. With Sagittarius in your 5th house you’ll enjoy dating people from all walks of life, often attracting lovers who have a background very different from your own. This adds depth and quality to your sexual and romantic escapades.

If Aries is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to intimate love and sexual encounters will be passionate and enthusiastic. You’re not afraid to “go there” with Aries in the 8th house – in fact – the prospect of a relationship being truly connected beyond physical sex completely turns you on. If you have Aries in the 8th house then you’ll likely have an extremely active sex life and will pursue getting your deepest needs met through your sexual encounters. You might be reckless when it comes to sexual practices if Aries is on the cusp of your 8th house because you’re so “in the moment.” Be sure to practice safe sex until you’re certain you and your intimate partner are exclusive. When it comes to achieving sexual regeneration you’ll dive into the depths that more tepid souls fear to tread. Your motto is “let’s get it on!”"

Moon and Mercury

Less directly associated with sex, but the positions of the Moon and Mercury have a strong influence on a chart-holder's sexual nature through their emotional and mental nature.

http://www.sexualastrology.com/moon_taurus_mercury_aries.html

Moon in Taurus - Mercury in Aries

"If you date someone with the Moon in Taurus, you will be rewarded with great loyalty and persistence. You are definitely with someone who has an emotional interest in making your relationship work. Sex will be a strong desire for someone with this Moon placement since Taurus is the most sensual sign of the zodiac. Always remember that physical pleasure is connected to emotions in a powerful way for this lover.It would benefit you to know that a relationship with your Moon in Taurus love is more likely to succeed when you are able to meet his most dominant need of keeping things as they are. Stability is an aphrodisiac to this sign. When the Moon is in Taurus in your lover's horoscope, always reassure him that you are vested in your romance. You just might have his heart forever.

When Mercury is in Aries you can be sure of one thing - honest and blunt communication. This Mercury placement will waste little time on conversation unless the talk is new, fresh and stimulating. In a relationship, someone with Mercury in Aries is often the initiator and may have more than a few sexy pick up lines at his disposal.It's common for those with Mercury in Aries to be fast talkers. This person will enjoy the occasional argument with a lover so don't expect dating to be peaceful. There is only one thing you can count on when it comes to talking to your Mercury in Aries lover - it will never get boring!"

http://www.sexualastrology.com/moon_taurus_mercury_leo.html

Moon in Taurus - Mercury in Leo

"If you date someone with the Moon in Taurus, you will be rewarded with great loyalty and persistence. You are definitely with someone who has an emotional interest in making your relationship work. Sex will be a strong desire for someone with this Moon placement since Taurus is the most sensual sign of the zodiac. Always remember that physical pleasure is connected to emotions in a powerful way for this lover.It would benefit you to know that a relationship with your Moon in Taurus love is more likely to succeed when you are able to meet his most dominant need of keeping things as they are. Stability is an aphrodisiac to this sign. When the Moon is in Taurus in your lover's horoscope, always reassure him that you are vested in your romance. You just might have his heart forever.

Leo is the sign that rules love, romance and sex so when Mercury is in Leo you can be positive that love is always on the brain! Mercury in Leo has a creative mind that must express itself so you can expect this person to be somewhat flamboyant in their communication style or a bit dramatic with body language.This will extend itself in the bedroom. During sex your Mercury in Leo lover will shower you with compliments and be very generous in expressing his feelings for you verbally. Mercury in Leo holds nothing back and will delight in open, affectionate declarations of love. At the same time, he will also expect you to adore and appreciate everything that comes out of his mouth."

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